Mrs [American] Pai

Whoops!

July 3, 2009 · Leave a Comment

What? I have a blog?!!

You see, having gone back to work this week (and therefore not home during the day to commandeer the desktop PC), I have been relegated back down to the EeePC.  Further encumbered by a silly ethernet cable/cord thingy because our wireless card is being moody.  And I don’t particularly enjoy sitting in this room listening to Ush and his WoW buddies be nerds together.  So I quickly check email and then go back to the rooms I enjoy – the kitchen, the lounge.  And, apparently, in doing so, I forget that I have a blog.

Apologies.

Um, in other news, we’re going on holiday next week!  We’re taking an eastern Mediterranean cruise, ‘Crimean Discovery’.  Remember last year, when Ush won that award through work? This is us cashing in on that award.

We’ll fly to Thessaloniki, in Greece, and the ship launches (is that what ships do? Launch? Take off? Embark? Set sail?) leaves that night and we spend the whole next day at sea.  Then we spend a day in cities in each of the following countries:- Bulgaria, Ukraine, Romania, Turkey (Istanbul! Most excited about this one), Limnos (Greek isles), and back to Thessaloniki for half a day before flying back to London.

We leave on Monday, so this weekend will involve lots of shopping for the trip and cleaning for the sake of our friends who are moving in for the week to house-sit and doggy-sit!

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Just like a white wing dove

June 26, 2009 · Leave a Comment

Unpacking is so much easier when listening to Stevie’s soulful voice singing her heart out.

I now possess the greatest hits of both Fleetwood Mac (The Very Best of Fleetwood Mac - which sadly and unbelievably doesn’t have “Gold Dust Woman” on it, but thankfully I already have Rumours, so I just added that to the playlist) and Stevie Nicks (Crystal Visions) and I will have them on repeat for the foreseeable future.

Sidenote: Ush got me a tshirt similar to this one (when he heard that I hadn’t bought one at the concert because they were so expensive! Aw!) except it’s a different silhouette of her and doesn’t have her name underneath.  I loves it!

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my heart is certainly here

June 24, 2009 · Leave a Comment

Or should I say hearts.  Are here.

It was so great to be reunited with London yesterday. (I grinned as I walked up my road, to the high street, to the bank machine to take out some cash to pay the cab driver who collected me from the airport and kindly unloaded my heavy bags which I didn’t have to pay excess baggage charges for.)  I really love it here.

It was so fantastic to be reunited with my doggies, who are so soft and wiggly and cuddly and snuggly and happy and bouncy and ohmygoshilovethemsomuch.  I sat on the floor for a good 10 minutes snuggling them and letting them lick me and climb all over me smelling all of my foreign strangers+animals+farm+airport+airplane smells.

It was nice to view our flat with new eyes, remembering the things I love about it and renewing my zeal to finally finish decorating it and organising some of the clutter. (Because let’s be honest, I’ll never really manage to organise ALL of the clutter. I do live with Ush, after all. He hasn’t yet been able to admit he’s a hoarder, but we’re working on it.)

And best of all, it was amazingly wonderful to be reunited with Ush.  I’d spent the day doing a bit of unpacking, some cleaning and organising, but mostly trying to stay awake.  From the living room, just before 6pm, I heard the front door open.  I stepped into the doorway, saw him coming through the front door, and I’m pretty sure we both sort of ran to meet in the middle of the foyer, standing in a hug for several minutes… him saying “You’re home!” three or four times, me unable to say anything.

I managed to stay awake all day yesterday except for an accidental 20 minute catnap (or rather, a Grandpa nap… You know, the kind where you’re sitting there reading and all of a sudden you’re asleep? Whoopsie!)  And despite a good amount of sleep last night, I’m completely exhausted today.  Shattered.

So, besides taking my doggies for a walk (done) and going across the road for a few things from the store (next up), I plan to do a whole lot of not much today.  The unpacking can wait.

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I know this makes me sound like a jerk

June 19, 2009 · 4 Comments

Sorry, but I’m not gonna turn my Twitter photo green

That doesn’t mean I don’t support democracy in Iran.  I do.  In fact, I support democracy everywhere!   So why do I need to turn my photo green just to prove that to other people?  Lame. (Uh oh, I better turn my photo green or people will think I don’t support Iran.  Hi – wrong reason to do it!) It’s almost become a fad. 

It’s like those bracelets. It began with the yellow LIVESTRONG ones being sold to support a cancer foundation set up by Lance Armstrong, to raise awareness of testicular cancer.  The idea caught on and soon people were wearing them in every colour and pattern, “supporting” every cause. 

“And what are you doing to support those causes,” I’d like to ask, “besides forking out a buck to wear a tacky silicone bracelet (or twelve)?”  …  “Oh, nothing?  Really? Interesting.”

Because that would have to be the answer a majority of the time.  Wearing one I can understand, because it can spark conversation, during which you can share about a cause that’s close to your heart.  How it’s affected your life and/or how you are involved in supporting it.  But wearing multiple bracelets? No.

I’m not trying to be a jerk, and I’m certainly not insensitive to the many difficult issues affecting people worldwide…  (I’m very aware, in fact, hence why I’m not entirely sure I want to merge onto Parenthood Parkway and try to navigate a child/children through the world as it currently stands.  But that’s a separate issue.)

It just chaps me when something important turns into a fad, because fads go out of fashion.  Things like cancer, poverty, injustice – those are everpresent. 

If you’re going to support a cause, do something real.

***Edited to add: I have to say, also, that writing this has forced me to re-evaluate my life, the things that matter to me, and what I’m doing (or not doing) to support those causes.  I’m going to veer myself onto the right path to remedy this.

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I had a date last night

June 17, 2009 · 4 Comments

…with this gorgeous girl!!!

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She’s my sister in every way except by blood.  Squeee!  Love you, Sara Lynn.

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7 days

June 16, 2009 · Leave a Comment

By this time next week, I’ll have been back home for a whole day.  And I will have spent a lot of that time on the floor letting my doggies maul me with wiggles and kisses.

I miss my little monsters!

(Ok, so Toby’s not in that one.  But I’ve talked at him on Skype several times, and he knows his mama’s coming home to him soon!)

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1 month instead of the 6wks to 3 months that they warned

June 13, 2009 · 4 Comments

Thursday 11th June. 
Approx 10am.
I’m working on the computer, as in actually doing work.

Mom’s cell phone rings. Oh, she must’ve left it here by mistake.  I’ll let it go to voicemail

A few minutes later, it rings again.  Dad shouts from upstairs that I should probably answer it.  I do.

“Hello, Kimberly’s phone.”
“Hi, is Stephanie there please?”
“This is Stephanie.”  Who the crap is calling me?!
“Hi Stephanie, this is Nora from the British Consulate General, I’m calling about your visa application.”
“Oh, ok…”  -heart drops into stomach- Oh gosh, what’s wrong? What did I miss??? 
“I just wanted to let you know that your application has been processed and your visa has been granted.”
“Oh!!! WOW!!!” [leaning over to put my head between my knees so as not to faint but also trying to jump up and down so nearly falling over anyway]
“We sent out an email, but sometimes they don’t go through right away, and you submitted so much information – it seems like this has been really hard on you, so I wanted to let you know straight away.”
“WOW!!!  THANK YOU SO MUCH!!!”  -heart back where it belongs, but now melting- What can I give you to express my gratitude?  My right arm? My first born child?!

She went on to tell me that everything was ready for me to pick- up and collection times are 3-4pm Mon-Fri.  I made some more squeaking thank you noises and then said goodbye.

I replayed the entire conversation for Dad.  Tried to call Ush.  Stupid tracfone wouldn’t let me. Texted Ush in ALL CAPS OMG I’M COMING HOME BABY!!! Mom came home and I replayed it again. 

And then I spent the rest of the day driving down to Chicago with Dad, grinning like a fool and feeling so incredibly thankful.

(I’m staying a further week so that I can see my brother next weekend, then I’m flying out on Monday 22nd, to land in London the following morning.)

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Yesterday’s gone

June 9, 2009 · Leave a Comment

I’m still grinning after last night’s show and Stevie Nicks has been serenading me in my daydreams since we left the Bradley Center last night.  So I have some stories to share, but I’ll spare you my own review – filled with exclamation points, CAPS LOCK, and various other teeny bopper expressions of delight OMGLOLZ!!1!!111!!  And instead I’ll post Dave Tianen’s review for JSOnline, “Fleetwood Mac keeps the classics fresh: Material might be familiar, but time hasn’t hurt well-loved tunes” .  What it lacks in passion and poetry (and squeals!),  it makes up for in general accuracy and insight. 
I just want to paste it here so that any skeptics can read an objective (aka non-crazy superfan) perspective. Then I’ll follow up with my own additions.  Ready? Here we go.

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The classic Fleetwood Mac lineup has released exactly one album of new material in the last 21 years.

Monday night in concert at the Bradley Center, they totally ignored that one album, “Say You Will.”

I seriously doubt anyone cared. The Big Mac is on the road to milk the catalog, and that is surely what the fans want. Of the 23 songs in the current set, 14 are from the two classic mid-’70s albums, “Fleetwood Mac” and “Rumours.” Those are two of the classic pop rock albums of the ’70s, or any other decade for that matter. It’s a set list loaded with hits and classics, including “Rhiannon,” “Dreams,” “Gold Dust Woman,” “The Chain,” “Landslide,” “Monday Morning,” “Go Your Own Way” and “Don’t Stop.”

When a huge band decides to take the oldies route and work the old hits, some questions are logical. First of all, do they seem bored or just going through the motions? The answer to that would seem to be an emphatic no. If Lindsey Buckingham was bored Monday night, it was the most frenetic display of tedium I have ever seen in my life. There is also a slight freshening effect because the old Christine McVie hits have now been parceled out between Buckingham and Stevie Nicks.

Second, has the passage of time and the weight of the years compromised their ability to deliver the goods? That’s a logical question. Buckingham will turn 60 on Oct. 3, and he’s the youngest person in the band. Again, Buckingham is a dynamo physically. He may be the only 59-year-old guitarist on the planet who bounces when he plays.

If Buckingham is the engine and musical master behind Fleetwood Mac, Nicks was always the visual and theatrical center. That still holds true in slightly muted form. Although she still dresses in shawls and loves to strike theatrical poses on stage, Nicks isn’t quite the wood sprite sex kitten of yore. We got exactly one of the old spinning moves with the arms outspread. At 60, Nicks is a little less Tinker Bell, a little more the well-preserved Witch of Eastwick.

One of the smart things they’re doing on this tour, since there aren’t any new songs: They’re giving us something new about the old songs. In introducing “Gypsy,” Nicks reminisced about the first band she shared with Buckingham and their days of opening for Santana and Janis Joplin in San Francisco. Buckingham spoke at some length about how “Big Love” became the template for the solo songs he wrote later in his career. This is a band with history, and I think it’s wise to share it with the audience.

And as Buckingham acknowledged, they also have a “complex” emotional history. Those old storms seem to have quieted with the years, and at least on stage Buckingham and Nicks seemed to have reached a state of genuine warmth and affection.

One other thing came through. I’m not sure Buckingham has ever quite gotten the credit he deserves as a guitarist. For several tunes, in the second half of the set, it was just Buckingham playing behind his own voice and Nicks, and the sound never seemed withered or small.

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There are also photos here.

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So, Mom and I arrive on 4th Street, balk at the price of parking, make our way into the venue, balk at the price of merchandise ($40-50 for a tshirt?! I don’t love anyone enough to spend that much on one of their tshirts), and head upstairs to our section.  The guy points us in the direction of our seats; we crane our necks up to see where he’s pointing.  We look at the empty row directly in front of us, turn to look at its angle with and proximity to the stage, turn back to the guy, and ask, “Can we sit here instead?”  To which he shrugs and says, “Fine with me, until you get kicked out!” 

We get settled and proceed to sweat (Mom) and fidget (me) with anxiety over the possibility that someone would come along who was actually supposed to be in those seats and we plan where we’d move next if they did.  We make jokes and speculate over what I’d do (which is drool and murmur incoherently) if I met Stevie.  Minutes tick by ever so slowly as we watch the arena fill up and yet no one came to our row.  I spew forth random Fleetwood Mac facts that I read on their websites earlier in the day.  We marvel that these seats up in section 423 are so much better than being in the back portion of the floor seats.  We declare ourselves “so rock & roll.”

Fleetwood Mac haven’t used an opening act in years and was scheduled for an 8pm start.  8:05.  8:10. *fidget fidget* 8:15.  Mom turns toward the stage, taps her watch, and calls out, “I start getting tired at 10!” 

Finally, a few minutes later, the lights come down and intro music starts… I can vaguely see people coming onto the stage, taking their positions.  A stream of something that resembles the English language is flying from my mouth: “IsthatheristhatherISTHATHER? OhmygoshohmygoshohmygoshOHMYGOSH! That’sher,theresheis! Ohmygosh, Ineedtositoverhere, sorryexcuseme!!!” And I basically sail over my mom’s body, probably kicking her in the face and gouging out one of her eyes on the way, to get into the seat on the other side of her.  And the stage lights come on and I proceed to squeal like a 12-year old.

*Insert 2 1/2 hours of what can really only be described as AWESOME-TASTIC-NESS*

Favourite Songs (no particular order):
- Dreams (I got choked up during her opening verse)
- Gypsy
- Big Love
(holy WOW Lindsey Buckingham has fast fingers!!)
 - Landslide
- Tusk (not as awesome without the marching band, but still packed some good punch!)
- Rhiannon (I actually cried)
- Storms (they had never performed this one on stage before this tour)
- Gold Dust Woman (loved the imagery with the lights and her shawl)
- Silver Springs
- Don’t Stop
(last song of the night capping off an incredible encore!)

Other Highlights:
- Stevie’s signature things: half moon pendant, flowy dresses and shawls, ribbons on her tambourine and mic stand, top hat, platform shoes, and spinning around to the music
- Mick Fleetwood’s crazy fab drum solo (”You still there?! [crowd cheers] Don’t leave meeee!”)
- Stevie and Lindsey’s random stories about the band’s history and/or stories behind certain songs
- Lindsey did a particularly awesome guitar solo.  Mom asked me, “Do your whistle!”  I complied.  She shouted towards the stage, “That’s from me!!”
- Mick Fleetwood’s lovely mid-encore introductions of each band member, calling Lindsey the maestro, John the righthand man, and Stevie the poet and their first lady
- Don’t Stop coming on the radio on the way home

It was just a most excellent night, and one I won’t soon forget!  A million thanks to my mom for getting the tickets for us :-D

PS – Also, they’ve just confirmed a UK leg of the tour.  London’s Wembley arena, 30th October.  I will be there, on my own if I must!

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I might pee myself

June 8, 2009 · 1 Comment

Oh man, you guys… OH MAN.
*can hardly contain excitement*
I’m going to see them tonight!!!

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More importantly, them

Stevie & Lindsey

Most importantly, HER!!!!

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OhhhhEmmmmmGeeeeee!!!  I am so sorry to sound like a ridiculous superfan, BUT I AM ONE!  That woman is so fabulous.  61 years old and still so amazingly fabulous.

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I can’t wait!  Sure, we’re in the nosebleeds, but I’m still going to be all Hi Stevie, hi! Wow you’re great! We have the same name, didya know?! I’m Stephanie Lynn too! You’re so pretty!  etc etc embarrassing etc.

Squeee!!!

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Family weekend

June 8, 2009 · Leave a Comment

Mom and I spent a 4-day weekend in Iowa visiting family and friends. My grandma just had her hip replacement put back in (after spending nearly 7 months without it) and is doing so great. I couldn’t be more thankful; I couldn’t stand to lose her yet.  My mom’s cousin got married and it was fun to catch up with so many people from that side of the family that we rarely see.  Travis accompanied us to the wedding, and it was great spending some time with him. We considered telling everyone he was my husband and then giggling when their faces would clearly express their confusion, He doesn’t look Indian!?!  I also reconnected with my very favourite cousin (actually – I suppose he’s a second cousin? third cousin? something removed? I don’t know. My dad and his mom are first cousins) who I haven’t been in touch with for almost 4 years – since just before I moved to London.  He’s in Afghanistan, flying as a MedEvac pilot. I can’t even describe how fantastic it feels to be in contact with him again (we always knew we’d reconnect eventually, but man I’ve missed him!)  He’s back home in August.

We visited my other grandparents too and it is always a pleasure seeing them. They’re slowly but surely giving away items of significance to whomever in the family wants them.  I was blessed with a few trinkets that are/have been meaningful to me – including a quilt made by the wife of an old friend of theirs who used to come over for dinner often, a box of buttons in a very old cigar box, a silver-plated cutlery set that belonged to Greatgrandma Moss, and the red ‘You Are Special Today’ plate that we got to use on our birthdays as kids. I’m so incredibly grateful to have these things which will serve as tangible reminders of my wonderful grandparents after they’re no longer with us.

I drove the whole 6 hours home today which would’ve been less except they had closed the Mississippi River bridge and so we had an hour-long detour down and around to the next bridge.  Annoying, but ho hum.  The radio was good to me, which helped immensely.

And now that I’ve been mostly positive throughout this post, I will end with what I’m really feeling: I MISS USH. AND MY DOGGIES. AND I WANT TO GO HOME. *whine moan sob sob sniff whine stupidConsulatehurryupandprocessmystupidapplication moan sob sob sniff sob*

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